DRAWING FROM THE DAY
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WHAT FAILURE TEACHES ME.

10/18/2015

 
On an inner level, it's been quite a week for me.  Many interior struggles.  I will spare you the content; let's just say I was "at sixes and sevens" all week.

In the midst of all this, I thought I would do the String Thing Challenge #114, and I did.

The result:  Not good!  Without in any way meaning to demean myself, let me say that I am laughing at how bad this tile is and part of me can't believe I'm posting it.  But you know what?  I don't care how bad it is, because I learned from it, and also it's a visual representation of my tumultuous inner state.  Here it is. 
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Feel free to speculate about this as an expression of my inner state, and feel free to giggle.  This is truly a Tile Gone Rogue.  When I look at it, and think about what I was feeling as I tangled, I get a real chuckle at how it turned out.

So what can I learn from this?

Well, for one thing, I was trying out some new metallic pencils, and also trying out a new type of shading stump--not the traditional tortillion but something I saw in my travels and picked up to try.  Here's a picture of the pencils and the strange new little shading stump:
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The pencils are from a kids' toy store.  The odd tortillions...sorry, can't remember where I got them!  Both were very cheap.

The jury is out on the pencils so far.  They are soft and creamy and go on easily, but are too large in my hands and don't seem to sharpen well or apply well.  But perhaps I just need more practice?

I used the gold metallic pencil and the rose/purple metallic pencil in this tile.

And the shading stump?  That's a puzzle as well.  I will have to try this in other contexts.  You can see where it nearly ripped up the paper around the "rays" on the tile, and I ended up with a kind of dirty ineffective smudge there rather than shading.  But was that the stump, or my technique?  Or maybe the stump isn't compatible with these pencils?  I won't know until I try again with it. 

And I will try again.

Ok, the question was, what did I learn from this?  I learned that:
  • I do need to read the directions, and then listen to myself.  I did not need to use all three tangles (Ah, Teenos, and Ta-Da).  In fact, I didn't want to use all three.  I could have listened to myself more as I worked on this...except with everything going on inside, likely I didn't want to.
  • I do not need to "do everything exactly right."  In this case, I tried to stick exactly to the string.  (God forbid I should color outside the lines!)  If this were brain surgery, "exactly right" would be the reasonable standard.  But as we know, this is not brain surgery nor is it about sticking to rigid guidelines.
  • Because of my stressed-out inner state, I became rigid about what I was doing.
  • I did relax a little while doing this.  But I was not centered (whoa, is that ever true...) and it shows.  When I am more centered, I take risks and play and fiddle around and come up with interesting alternatives.  I could not do that here.
  • I learned that there are times that it may not be best to change everything at once.  (New pencils, new type of tortillion)  Perhaps especially when one's inner state is not at its best!  That said, there certainly are times when it's a great idea to throw caution to the wind and change everything...but this wasn't one of them.
  • I learned that I can turn out a tile I really dislike, and still get a laugh from it.  Not a mean or sarcastic laugh, but a good belly-laugh that demeans no one.  Just a plain old "live and learn!" laugh.
  • I learned that making art requires failures, and then it's important to keep on making art.  Just do it.  We learn from everything.

This entire process reminded me of meditation.  I frequently feel, in meditation, that I "should" be experiencing something I'm not, or that "I'm doing it wrong," or that if my brain would just shut up for once, I'd be in bliss.  The truth is, meditation, like life, can be very messy.  In meditation, I need to be listening to my Self.  In meditation, I do not need to feel there is "one right way" to proceed (or that I don't know the "one right way").  In meditation, if I am having a ping-pong experience obsessing about something stressful, I can get rigid about what I'm doing if I'm not aware of what is happening.  In meditation, I don't have to change everything...in fact, I don't have to change ANYTHING.  Just observe what's going on.  In meditation, after I contemplate whatever is going on, I'm usually a lot more ready to find the humor i it.  And in meditation, I have daily failures and daily successes; but no matter what happens, I am committed to it, and I continue to practice. 

That is what it's all about:  PRACTICE.  (This was also my word for 2015) 

Practice in art, practice in meditation, and practice in life.

I'll end with a tangle I did in my Tangle-a-day calendar when I was preparing to do the String Challenge.  I didn't have much experience with the Ta-Da tangle, so I tried it out here:
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I did this in one of my few relaxed moments this week, prior to attempting the String Challenge.  I used a Rainbow Lead Pencil.  I think you can see the difference between this and the artificial, contrived-looking, and unsuccessful String Challenge Tile.  I was relaxed and centered here; I used familiar tools, and I was willing to just practice for fun, no matter how well or poorly it turned out.  I was just experimenting.

Coincidentally, Ta-Da was also the featured monotangle in the #83 Joey Challenge this week, so I just sent this experimental version in as my entry for that.

Big lessons for me here.


"Back of every mistaken venture and defeat is the laughter of wisdom, if you listen."  --Carl Sandburg

Yorkshire Tortoise
10/19/2015 06:07:52 pm

Well I liked your first tile, I would be pleased to do one like that. When I was reading I thought it was going to be really basic or something. I have had tiles turn out very basic and disjointed. I must admit your Monotangle is very pretty but it is a totally different style.

Devin
10/19/2015 07:14:38 pm

Thank you Ms. Tortoise--so kind of you. I just find it very jarring--but I can appreciate it because I did learn a lot. Among other things, it turns out that the new tortillions are supposed to be used only with paint or other wet media. No wonder they didn't work here. Perhaps if I'd used a blending fluid, they would have worked well (in fact, they tore up the paper with dry colored pencils).

michele link
10/19/2015 06:18:55 pm

I think that came out really well. I love those muted colors. Funny how we're our own worst critics, but I truly get it when work is produced under less than desirable circumstances. Sometimes I sit down to draw and just feel agitated or if I'm following a piece I really liked the next one usually feels inadequate.
Your Ta-Da is absolutely gorgeous! I love the depth and color.

Devin
10/19/2015 07:19:38 pm

Thanks, Michele. It's possible that my feeling about this tile comes from the feelings I was having when creating it. You're so right! We are indeed our own worst critics.

Audrie Wiesenfelder link
10/20/2015 01:32:25 am

<I>Your Ta-Da tile is gorgeous.The colors are wonderful, and the shading perfect.</I>

Devin
10/20/2015 10:07:13 am

Wow, thank you!

Nancy Sass link
10/20/2015 09:44:05 am

Hi Devin,
I love your Ta Da in color. As I love all your tangles, It is so beautiful.
Thank you for sharing and touching our inner art spirits.
Nanxy

Devin
10/20/2015 10:09:08 am

Nancy, my gosh, what a kind piece of feedback. Thank you. I'm always afraid my posts sound eye-rollingly pompous and officious. Much appreciated.

Ilse link
10/20/2015 03:40:49 pm

I really don't see why your first tile would be bad?! It's almost as nice as your Ta-da Monotangle, which I love :-)

Devin
10/20/2015 10:32:28 pm

Thank you, Ilse! I don't know what it is--I just truly don't like the composition. But thank you.

Diane Clancy link
10/24/2015 09:30:30 am

I can see that you might feel disorganized in the first - I have lots of days like this!! Your Ta-da is lovely!!! :) :)

~ Diane Clancy
http://www.dianeclancy.com/blog/2015/10/my-joeys-monotangle-ta-da-challenge

Joey link
10/24/2015 11:17:19 am

It's funny how we are always the hardest on ourselves. I recently drew a big "mistake" and posted it as a reminder that things don't always turn out as planned.
I love the rainbow effect on the TaDa tile, it looks so puffy!
Thanks again for participating!
~ joey ~

Devin
10/24/2015 11:46:03 am

Hi Joey, I don't know if you'll ever see this comment, but in case you do: I saw that mistake you posted and commented on it. I really liked it. In fact, even though I didn't like this tile, I am getting much better at appreciating the mistakes I make, and at not being embarrassed by them. We learn so much from them! Thanks for hosting this challenge.

Susan Theron
10/25/2015 07:36:21 am

Lovely and so colourful!


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